We’ve all seen this. You’re at a kids’ birthday party. It’s present-opening time.
The birthday boy or girl tears into the wrapping paper, and before the ribbon even hits the floor, all the kids are shouting the same thing:
“Open mine next! Open mine next!”
Why? Because the giver wants to see the joy. They want to feel that rush of, I did something good.
Funny thing, adults aren’t much different. We might not shout it out loud at a party, but deep down, we all love that moment when something we did made somebody else’s day better.
That’s exactly what’s happening when people refer business to you.
It’s not just about helping you (though of course it does). It’s about how it makes them feel. Just like helping a neighbor when you carry their groceries or lend them your mower, and you walk away feeling a little taller.
So when you ask for the business, you’re not begging. You’re not chasing. You’re simply giving people the opportunity to feel good about themselves, and Lord knows, we could all use a little more of that these days.
Take one of our members, Debbie Simpson. She was closing one or two loans a month… good, steady business.
But then she made one change: she started asking for the business. Not pushy. Not awkward. Just a clear, confident ask.
Today she’s regularly at six, seven, even eight closings a month. Same person. Same market. The difference? She simply gave people the chance to feel good about referring her.
We can help you do the exact same.
We’ll coach you for free on how to ask in a way that’s natural, cool, and effective, all with the right words, the right timing, and the right approach.
When you’re ready for us to walk you through it, book a quick call at GetMoreLoans.com.
I’m convinced that one simple skill, asking for the business, will do more to grow your production almost overnight than any other single change you could make.
So here’s my suggestion: don’t leave it to chance. Give people the opportunity to feel good about helping you… and watch how fast your numbers climb.
Go Here and we’ll have a free 1-on-1 coaching session on this topic.





