My First Open House Was A Disaster

We’ve all seen this. You’re at a kids’ birthday party. It’s present-opening time.

The birthday boy or girl tears into the wrapping paper, and before the ribbon even hits the floor, all the kids are shouting the same thing:

“Open mine next! Open mine next!”

Why? Because the giver wants to see the joy. They want to feel that rush of, I did something good.

Funny thing, adults aren’t much different. We might not shout it out loud at a party, but deep down, we all love that moment when something we did made somebody else’s day better.

That’s exactly what’s happening when people refer business to you.
It’s not just about helping you (though of course it does). It’s about how it makes them feel. Just like helping a neighbor when you carry their groceries or lend them your mower, and you walk away feeling a little taller.

So when you ask for the business, you’re not begging. You’re not chasing. You’re simply giving people the opportunity to feel good about themselves, and Lord knows, we could all use a little more of that these days.

Take one of our members, Debbie Simpson. She was closing one or two loans a month… good, steady business. 

But then she made one change: she started asking for the business. Not pushy. Not awkward. Just a clear, confident ask.

Today she’s regularly at six, seven, even eight closings a month. Same person. Same market. The difference? She simply gave people the chance to feel good about referring her.

We can help you do the exact same.

We’ll coach you for free on how to ask in a way that’s natural, cool, and effective, all with the right words, the right timing, and the right approach.

When you’re ready for us to walk you through it, book a quick call at GetMoreLoans.com.

I’m convinced that one simple skill, asking for the business, will do more to grow your production almost overnight than any other single change you could make.

So here’s my suggestion: don’t leave it to chance. Give people the opportunity to feel good about helping you… and watch how fast your numbers climb.

Go Here and we’ll have a free 1-on-1 coaching session on this topic.

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Scripts For The Top 5 Buyer Objections

Here’s some video shorts that will teach you how to cover the top 5 buyer objections so that you can give a quick answer that helps convert more prospects into buyers.

Top 5 Buyer Objections <no charge>

We’ll cover:

1. “I’m just shopping around for a mortgage right now…”
2. “Your rate seems high..”
3.  “I want the lowest rate…”
4.  “My Realtor gave me 3 lenders to call…”
5.  “I don’t want you to pull my credit because it will drop my score…”

Watch the videos then swipe and deploy ☺

You’re welcome.  That’s just the way we roll around here.

The Whale Hunter Is Coming

We’re down to just 5 seats left for our Mastermind Retreat happening October 9–10 in Clearwater Beach, and I wanted to let you in on a little surprise that just might tip the scales.

On Thursday, we’ve got a special guest flying in for an exclusive session, and he’s known in the industry as a whale hunter.

What’s that mean?
He’s a master at teaching how to build referral partnerships with top-producing real estate agents, the ones doing 30, 50, even 100+ deals a year.

This isn’t the usual “call more agents” talk. This is a deep dive into:
1. How to identify real whales (not just good agents)
2. How their psychology and needs are different
3. How to land meetings and earn their trust
4. And how to turn one whale into a stream of closings

Jimmy doesn’t speak often in public (he’s too busy closing loans for his branch) and you’ll only hear this content at our private event on Day 1.

Between that, a full training with me over two days, and a special session from a top social media expert, this event is going to be something truly special.

Clearwater Beach, FL
October 9–10
8:30 AM – 5:30 PM (Lunch included)
Only 5 seats left

Secure Your Spot Now at MastermindRetreats.com

Let’s wrap up the year strong, and surround ourselves with people who are doing big things.

Things I wish I would have known #226

I used to think the secret was outworking everyone else.
Longer hours. More hustle. More “grind.”

But here’s the problem…
If you’re paddling like crazy in the wrong direction, you just get lost faster.

The real secret?
Work on the right things.

I call them “needle-benders” — the handful of activities that actually move the business forward.

Everything else?

  • Delegate it.
  • Automate it.
  • Or delete it entirely.

When I finally started filtering my to-do list through that lens, my income went up, my stress went down, and I got my evenings and weekends back.

If you’ve been feeling like you’re working harder than ever but not seeing the results you want… maybe it’s time to adjust the compass instead of rowing faster.

That’s exactly what we’ll be working on — step-by-step — at my next live Mastermind Retreat in Clearwater, FL.

You’ll leave with a simple plan you can execute right away… and a clear picture of your needle-bending activities.

Join us here: www.MastermindRetreats.com

Why the Best Loan Officers Never “Arrive”

When I first started in this business, I thought success was about getting to some magical finish line.

Hit a certain income… build the perfect pipeline… then coast.

Here’s what I learned:
There’s no finish line.

The loan officers who last — and win — are the ones who play the long game.


They focus on:

  • Building relationships that last for years
  • Protecting their reputation like gold
  • Doing the right things, over and over, without burning out

And what I’ve learned is: their success isn’t from random hustle… it’s from running a week that’s intentionally designed to create consistent wins.

I’ve got an example of exactly what that looks like — a “Perfect Week” calendar from a top producer who closes at a high level year after year.

If you’d like me to walk you through it, let’s set up a quick call.

I’ll show you what to focus on, what to cut, and how to structure your week so it compounds over time instead of burning you out.

Let’s Chat Here

Play the long game — and win it.